I jus been thinkng....

okk well basically i been seein alotta girls complainin && cryin about a guy on facebook,twitter..etc. && there's nothing wrong with being heartbroken or sad over a guy but ladies you dnt have to ALWAYS put tht out there....especially if you want a new guy to come along cause my guys find tht unattractive.....im jus sayin. Anyways one girl put in her status today a long paragraph about hpw she felt about a man && relationships & im pretty sure its because it applied to her life....but one thing that she said stood out to me "A man know's what he wants" & then she went went on about a man this & a man tht....but my question is why are we so caught up on what a guy wants? what about what the woman wants,,most importantly what about what you want? We (Women) are always so caught up on what a guy wants or wants them to be etc,,etc,,yur tryna be wht he needs...bt is he wat you need?.....he's nt if he actin like he dnt want you && what nt. When a situation like tht happens you just need to move on & find somebody else to tlk to cause thts exactly what he gon do! I've learned things the hard way...but now believe me i dnt talk to just ONE guy i talk to MANY. Dont call me a hoe cause i aint fuckkin em,,but its easier tht way i can go on different date,,&& pick and choose what "I" like & what "I" dont like & he can try && be what I wanthim to be cause he know i dnt need him....i have others. & when you've found tht special one, you guys can be what each other needs and it wont be one sided. But tht doesnt come easy it may be a while before you find him, but DO NOT settle. So ladies think about what you want....and make that your first priority.